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The Edge Original Lecture Series

  •Lesson 1 ~ Laying the Foundation with Presence

  •Lesson 2 ~ The Walls, Windows, and Doors - Serves and Scenes

  •Lesson 3 ~ Furnishings - The Advanced Techniques to Create Your World

  •Lesson 4 ~ BDSM - Defined

  •Lesson 5 ~ "What makes a good Dom/me?"

  •Lesson 6 ~ "BDSM and Hypnosis"

  •Lesson 7 ~ "Fire Play"

  •Lesson 8 ~ "Respect of the collar by Dom/mes and submissives and others that frequent BDSM chat rooms"

The Edge Discussion Archives

  •Jan. 29, 2009 ~ Discussion 1: Are Yyou into BDSM in VT only or have Yyou or would Yyou like to have it in Yyour RT as well? IF yes to RT integration... How have Yyou ?

  •Feb. 8, 2009 ~ Discussion 2: BDSM - Defined

  •Feb. 15, 2009 ~ Discussion 3: "What makes a good Dom/me?"

  •Feb. 22, 2009 ~ Discussion 4: "BDSM and Hypnosis"

  •June 14, 2009 ~ Discussion 5: "Respect of the collar by Dom/mes and submissives and others that frequent BDSM chat rooms"

  •August 2, 2009 ~ Discussion 6: "submissives, dominants, bottoms and tops and how these roles fit in BDSM."

  •August 9, 2009 ~ Discussion 7: "Negotiations between Dom/me and submissive"

  •August 16, 2009 ~ Discussion 8: "Going from VT to RT"

  •August 23, 2009 ~ Discussion 9: "Why are Dommes and their female subs more easily accepted than Doms and their male subs?"

  • September 13, 2009 ~ Discussion 10: "The distinction between a Master and a Sir. {{Mistress and Ma’am also}} - What exactly is the difference? - Who deserves the title and why? "

  • September 20, 2009 ~ Discussion 11: "Is there a real difference in ages online and real time, in BDSM in particular?"

  • September 27, 2009 ~ Discussion 12: "BDSM tools/toys and limits"

  •October 11, 2009 ~ Discussion 13: "When Y/your fabulous sexual/bdsm match (role) doesn't quite fit."

  •October 18, 2009 ~ Discussion 14: "Dealing with a long distance BDSM relationship while having little contact with each O/other."

  •October 25, 2009 ~ Discussion 15: "Online friends, are they really friends or just disposable VT characters? Is it the same in BDSM rooms as anywhere else online?"

  •November 29, 2009 ~ Discussion 16: "BDSM - Are W/we sexual deviants?"

  •December 6, 2009 ~ Discussion 17: "Should a Dominant, (Unforgiven) spank all subs asses made available to His hand for His Birthday OR should He bend over and gift all the subs that want to to the chance to swat His aging bum?(btw, Happy Birthday Unforgiven)"

  •January 10, 2010 ~ Discussion 18: "Issues to be confronted when transitioning from r/t Dom or sub to a v/t one."

  •January 17, 2010 ~ Discussion 19: ""Red flags in VT / RT BDSM"

  •January 24, 2010 ~ Discussion 20: "Rights of a submissive"

  •January 31, 2010 ~ Discussion 21: "Rights of a Dom/me"

  •March 7, 2010 ~ Discussion 22: "If Y/you think sex/intimacy online is not infidelity to Y/your RT partner then why should it be considered infidelity to Y/your VT partner?
AND
In contrast if Y/you have a committed VT relationship, does that cripple Y/you, would pursuing RT sex/intimacy be infidelity to Y/your VT partner?"

  •March 14, 2010 ~ Discussion 23: "What's the difference between a sub being flogged/whipped/spanked/humiliated and an abused individual?
AND
What's the difference between a controlling Dominant and an abuser who beats & demoralizes?"

  •March 21, 2010 ~ Discussion 24: "Pros and Cons of Exploring BDSM Online"

  •March 28, 2010 ~ Discussion 25: "SEX SEX SEX What's the kinkest sex Y/you have had online or want to have online?"

  •June 6, 2010 ~ Discussion 26: "BDSM - Bedroom Only"

  •June 20, 2010 ~ Discussion 27: "BDSM - Why are Yyou not out in the real world doing Yyour BDSM thing?"

  •July 11, 2010 ~ Discussion 28: "BDSM - Online Only and Real!"

  •July 25, 2010 ~ Discussion 29: "BDSM - Humiliation Play; is there a line, who decides?"

  •Aug 1, 2010 ~ Discussion 30: "10 Misconceptions About BDSM" by "The 3 Doms"

  •Aug 15, 2010 ~ Discussion 31: Final Segment of "10 Misconceptions About BDSM" by "The 3 Doms"

  •September 6, 2010 ~ Discussion 32: "Why are some Dom's (males for the purpose of this discussion) so contrary? Are You really behaving like a Dom at all? Or just a bratty boy?"

  •September 19, 2010 ~ Discussion 33: "PMs Allowed vs PMs Permission Only?"

  •Oct 3, 2010 ~ Discussion 34: "What is with these subs (female for the purpose of this discussion) are they just silly young brats? Or are they playing a role their Dom / me likes?"

  •Oct 17, 2010 ~ Discussion 35: "Questions to ask a potential Dom & Questions to ask a potential sub"

  •November 21, 2010 ~ Discussion 36: "Dealing with insecurities"

  •January 1, 2011 ~ Discussion 37: "Collar vs. Owned

  •January 16, 2011 ~ Discussion 38: "BDSM (VT/RT) relationships that include polyamory"

  •February 6, 2011 ~ Discussion 39:"The roles of punishment vs guidance in the BDSM relationship & is punishment necessary?"

  •February 20, 2011 ~ Discussion 40:"Doms and subs acting out for attention and what can be done about it?"

  •March 6, 2011 ~ Discussion 41:"At what point both r/t and v/t may a submissive stop being respectful to a Dom?"

  •March 20, 2011 ~ Discussion 42:"Dom/mes - submissives & $$$ - VT/RT - W/who should pay for what & how?"

  •August 20, 2011 ~ Discussion 45:"Exploring BDSM fantasies by role-playing BDSM scenarios"

  •September 17, 2011 ~ Discussion 46:"Dom/mes switching, subs switching, what's the world coming to and how do Y/you feel about it, wanna switch?"

  •October 22, 2011 ~ Discussion 47:"Scene Ideas - from a movie, story, that Y/you've seen or from Y/your own fantasy"

  •June 29, 2013 ~ Discussion 48:"Definitions and differences between a submissive, what we generally have here in the Edge and slaves, which are common in Gor and some Lifestylers live that way as well."

  •July 26, 2013 ~ Discussion 49:"Nourishing an On-Line or Long Distance D/s Bond"

  •October 18, 2014 ~ Discussion 50:"submissives..... the noun, not the verb"

  •November 15, 2014 ~ Discussion 51:"Dominants, what makes a good One/bad one?"

  •January 17, 2015 ~ Discussion 52:"R/role of Irony - "Why we are all S/switches."

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